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This delightful little film is full of vibrant colors. I loved the ending. (After clicking on the link, scroll down to There Is Something In This.)

 

 

Ready for a good laugh? You've got to check out this website: I think its name, Crabby Old Fart, pretty much says it all!

 

 

Evangelist gets 175 years for child sex. Read about it here.

 

 

 

Help For DID is a powerful little video which left me feeling both wistful and hopeful. Please watch it at your discretion as it could be triggering.

 

 

Click here to read 25 Ways to Avoid Self-injury.

 

So many of us women have been in abusive relationships with men who demean, hit, mock, control and in general do everything in their power to whittle us down to nothing. If you are in a relationship you're not comfortable with because of any of these behaviors, You Are Not Crazy is an excellent resource providing insight for understanding your situation, and encouragement to give yourself permission to leave.

 

 

 

Healing the Soul has a poignant blog entry entitled Why Didn't I Tell Someone?, a story which far too many sexual abuse victims know by heart.

 

 

 

I love the simplicity of the collected photos and quotations found here.

 

 

 

 

Catatonic Kid has an informative article, Practical Guide to PTSD on her blog. You can check it out here.

 

 


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Need help finding a therapist? The website for the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation is a good place to start. There's a whole lot of other excellent information as well that's worth checking out.

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 Where your pleasure is, there is your treasure; where your treasure, there your heart; where your heart, there your happiness. (Augustine)



 

 

 

Click here for a listing of Suicide Hotlines by state.



 

 

 

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I found this website helpful, How MPD (DID) works: An Inside View. I'm still trying to figure out the inner workings of a (ok, my DID system) and really like how this article explains it.






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Wednesday
28Oct2009

This and That

I decided last week to knit a scarf for V., the surly bartender at the local pub. We had a conversation whose subject I don't recall, but somewhere in the midst of it I glimpsed her hurting soul, and that was that. I'd seen her humanity peek through the tough outer shell that passes for her true self, and something within me responded with the sudden desire to do her an unexpected kindness. (She's the one who gave me the hair salon gift card a couple of weeks ago--which I plan on using tomorrow--so technically she's the one who started the whole kindness thing.)

This is the first time I've used cables in knitting for probably 30 years. I had to relearn how to do them. Once I did I discovered how much I like making them. It's fun using a different technique every now and then (like every few decades!)

I've also made another hat, which is bigger than the others I'm making. I read on the website for the orphan hat project that the bigger kids are in need of things too since mostly they get shipments of hats, etc. for the babies and toddlers.

Other than knitting my days have been filled with doing laundry. Sissyface is moving out on Tuesday which doesn't leave much time for me to get her ton of laundry done. Since she's already paid me for this task I'm obligated to see it through.

And now I must run and transfer a load of wash into the dryer. When I return I'll sit down with the Irish Hiking scarf I'm working on and take it easy for awhile.

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Reader Comments (2)

Your scarf looks beautiful! It is a great color and I always feel like cables make something extra special!

Love the hat!! I've got quite a pile of squares and things ready to go....I'm going to try to make it to the post office this week with a "shipment"

November 1, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterTracie

Tracie,

Wow, that was fast! I'd be interested in knowing how much the postage cost.

Beauty

November 1, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterbeauty

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