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Check out this article about the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomena, including a list of organizations which strongly oppose this sick trend, and have implemented various means of helping women who have been sexually victimized.


Were you raised by a narcissist? Chances are you were if you suffered any form of childhood abuse. The Little Red Survivor website is filled with excellent articles examining the many faces of narcissism.


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Kate Is Rising has an excellent Survivors Resources page which directs you to numerous websites dealing with issues of abuse, healing and recovery. Please bear in mind that the information on these pages may be triggering.



There's lots of good stuff at the Dissociation Blog Showcase, including a list of 180 blogs dealing with some aspect of this disorder. 



On the Overcoming Sexual Abuse site there's an article entitled, "It's Not About You Mom" which I could have written myself. I bet many of my readers could say the same!








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Beauty's Face Lift

Isn't it a kick when the shoe fits?

Once upon a time, in the midst of his happy ever after love for Beautyrella, the Prince suddenly asked her, oh so gently, "Do you think it's time for a face lift, darling?" A soft sigh escaped Beauty's lips at the thought that her dear lover found her less than appealing. "Your features have become rather dark and drab," he prodded, and picking up one of her listless, liver-spotted hands, kissed it affectionately.

A single tear formed in the corner of Beauty's eye; she could hardly believe her ears. "But," she faltered, searching for the right words to convey her consternation, "but darling," she managed, "I like dark. It suits me so."

At this the Prince chuckled. "You no longer live in the cellar," he reminded her with a twinkle in his eyes. "You must live according to your new station in life as the Prince's beloved!"

"Oh," Beauty gasped, eyes widening with sudden comprehension, "then I shall array myself in the softest pinks, for they are the hues of my love's devotion."

Uh, yeah. That conversation never quite happened. I'm writing metaphorically, for it's my blog (and only my blog, I hope) in dire need of a facelift. What you see here is the result of total frustration with a template which was too dark, fonts too small (which couldn't bear tampering, or rather which I didn't dare tamper with at the risk of my sentences being all smushed together.)

I hope this blog will better suit my readers' needs. Some of them, like myself, are getting on in years and need a bit larger font. And maybe there's a bit of symbolism here; I've been writing recently about coming out of my trance, of this being the year for me to turn things around. How fitting, then, to begin with a lighter, easier to read blog. My old site is still available HERE for those of you who are dying to delve into its archives and do some catch up reading. I know you're out there somewhere!



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Hi Beauty

We like the new format, it is very easy to read and as you said, much lighter, fresher, crisper, you get the idea. A new you a new blog site!!


January 29, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterkeepers

Hey, you guys are my first ever guests to my new site! I'm not giving out prizes either (ha), but thanks for dropping by.I'm having fun totally revamping my blog, even if it's giving me a big crick in my neck.

January 29, 2007 | Registered Commenterbeautifuldreamer

I like the new look.

-Tom Dandy

January 29, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterTom Dandy

i really like it. i have always liked pink, much to the surprize of some ;)

January 30, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterkïrstin

I really like this template. I don't blame you a bit for leaving WordPress. I don't think there are many blog hosts out here that have everything one could want in a host but I get kind of tired of limited control and poor pitiful support. I use to toot the horn of WordPress but not so much anymore.

I'm happy I finally got over here to see your "lift." Oh how yours eyes flutter and shine, you go girl! Give me the number to your surgeon/host. I might need a lift too or should I stay in the sag called WordPress and keep my humble appearance? :-) <<<--- does my nose look big? Should I get that done too? My eyes seem a bit baggy, lots of crow feet though I'm sure on my picture here they don't show. My complexion is horrible in this here shot of me too. --->>>> :-( See, I look so pale.
I like this template, bright and easy to read.

Silvery...I'm a pink fan, I surprise many as well.


January 30, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAustin

I shall return to do actual reading of entries. I need to hit Keepers Korner as well tomorrow.

Later tater,

January 30, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAustin

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